Toastmasters International -

Many guests step tentatively into their first club meeting with hopes of practicing a speech for a wedding or similar special occasion. During this time of year, happy couples in many parts of the world join with families and friends in a ceremony to begin their lives together. Where there’s a gathering, there’s a need to celebrate the occasion with a heartfelt toast.

Below is a list of proven tips for delivering a memorable toast with confidence and finesse.

Identify yourself. Open with a brief explanation of your relationship to the couple before beginning the toast.
Be prepared. The best toasts include an opening, a body and a conclusion.
Stay on topic. Although you may be nervous, stay focused on the couple and their special day.
Get personal. A toast should be original, heartfelt and customized for the occasion.
Use humor but avoid telling potentially embarrassing stories and using offensive language.
Be creative. Avoid clichés and consider using a relevant quote to illustrate your words.
Be brief. A toast should last no longer than three minutes.
Stand; lift your glass by the stem and say, “I’d like to propose a toast.” Pause to allow guests to shift their attention toward you and give them time to lift their glasses. When you start speaking, lower your glass to about waist height.
Practice makes perfect. Rehearse your message in advance in front of a group of friends.